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 Post subject: I wonder how my mother doesn't know.
PostPosted: Wed Nov 11, 2009 5:17 am 
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I must be really good at covering up, cause aren't moms supposed to be good at picking stuff like this up (like, their kid being the wrong gender?)

But how does she miss the fact that i.hate.my.body. and am constantly trying to cover&hide the fact that I have these huge fat balls known as boobs on me

Blah. I want to point this out to her. I already hint at the fact[read:"say"] that I'm a boy.
But does she even close to get the message
Nope. She still thinks I'm going to find a boyfriend (no...)

:roll: I suppose oblivious is one thing. But sometimes I really wonder why I'm still living in this house with the combination of her and my dad (according to him, all "gays" are evil and going to burn in hell... Uh thanks? Comforting to know that.)

Gr. I'm ranting now


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 Post subject: Re: I wonder how my mother doesn't know.
PostPosted: Fri Nov 13, 2009 12:26 pm 
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I wonder if parents don't want to know? I really believe that is often the case...that they will ignore everything they can (including the fact that their son dresses up in mommy's clothing and enjoys makeup) if what they are seeing doesn't match what they want to see.

I believe people do tend to see what they want to...including the good (or bad) in others and themselves. We see everything through our own lenses...and if that lens doesn't include the possibility that a son may be a daughter or visa versa, they can overlook evidence that contradicts what they believe.

Just a thought...doesn't mean I'm right!

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